hands off me

i finally pluck up my courage and email my mentor to ask her to stop hitting me and touching me. i try to do it as nice as possible and the replies after she reply, i did add in some jokes or what...

but am i too sensitive or what, i think she's super over-reacting!! ok, she say sorry, and that's ok but today i decided to wear a long sleeve shirt and she start to say, "sorry, you wear long sleeve shirt, is it because there is bruises? sorry leh" I told her no coz i bought the long sleeve shirt, that's why once in a blue moon also must wear but she just kept on saying sorry a few times...

then i was too busy for lunch and my the other colleague offer to help me buy lunch and help me press my shoulders to give me a short massage. She started to say very loudly "No, you cannot touch her, you cannot touch her!" the whole office can hear that. Even when that colleague start asking why, she only "you cannot touch her, she is very sensitive"

i will only tell you not to touch me is because yours is the most extreme case. How can i stand someone touching me every other hour everyday, if not when you are talking, you will tend to hit me a few times at one go.

i had never like people to touch me since young and you are doing this to me almost everyday or are you thinking that i am joking with you?

i can tell you, no, i am not joking with you. there are just some people who don't like others to touch them and yours is too extreme for me

the next time she says that to my other colleagues, i should just say: I DON'T LIKE PPL TO TOUCH ME, THATS WHY SHE SAYS THAT. i guess this will be able to shut her mouth and hands off me.

MOM should also add in 1 new ruling - sexual harassment by female co-workers.